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The video girl is Jenny (Lewis, I think). She's the lead singer of Rilo Kiley (I love the song 'Portions for Foxes'). Maybe she and Ben have a thing....?

I don't know, Carol. If you're right, that's a great eye you've got. I see a resemblance for sure, but I'm not convinced. (I'm sure if I felt compelled enough, a few minutes of internet research could turn up the answer.. )

By the way, if Ben and Jenny are dating, it only proves that women love a musically inclined guy. She's an 8 or a 9. He's a 3 for chrissakes... ;-)

Maybe this will tell you how poor my eye is. The first time I watched it, the girl looked like a tired, un-made up version of Mila Jovovich (sp?). I think it was the 3 quarter profile shots that looked that way to me.

Anyway, I saw Ben Gibbard in Seattle about a year ago and Jenny Lewis was one of his special guest artists who sang with him. They didn't seem like an item at the time, but I wouldn't really expect them to make-out on stage either.

Regarding your last 2 sentences....where, oh where, do I start? Women love musically inclined guys yes (unless we've been music majors, in which case the music really does have to be just an inclination and not a job), but women love guys with all kinds of talent and/or passion and honor. Being good with kids, for example. Being so irritatingly analytical that you always feel safe with their decisions. Being a member of the Armed Forces or a mountaineer.....again evoking that feeling of safety (albeit a more physical kind of safety). Men just don't operate as smartly, basing most of their romantic decisions on the fancy shell, hoping there will something inside, as opposed to selecting the core, and being willing to settle for a less fancy shell.

Look around. It's not just musicians who date women more attractive than they. It's a pattern that doesn't discriminate by trade or occupation.

And I don't think Ben is really an exterior 3. He just geeks himself up so much with his silly glasses and haircut, that he detracts from his nice looks.

Sorry if I sounded grumpy. I'm not at all grumpy. I'm just a bitter 39 year old. :-)

Whoa! My last sentence was purely tongue in cheek. I think you know me better than that...

Without knowing either of them personally, its entirely possible that he is too good for her! (despite being genetically challenged) <---again, tongue in cheek

LOL. You never know what's going to set off a bitter woman. I'm not exactly sure that we know each other well enough to say that I should recognize the tongue in cheek comment/tone, but I do apologize for the unnecessary soapbox solo. I'm sure he is too good for her. She seems pretty flakey to me. :-)

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